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Harris spends time discussing the two most common strategies that people use with difficult thoughts and feelings. What he calls OBEY or STRUGGLE modes. How to recognize each, what science says works better
— Nov 11, 2026 06:23AM
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Harris takes us through exercises to discover our values and to select goals appropriate with our circumstance and resources to move forward. Specific actions that support deeper values.
— 1 hour, 14 min ago
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How to practice what to do when you get hooked by a thought, and how to direct your attention towards your five senses, the present moment, and what’s important to you.
— 3 hours, 29 min ago
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In today's reading, Paris defines mindfulness as paying attention to the present moment with openness and curiosity. The rest of today's reading spent time doing 30-second exercises to practice the skill. At the end, he guided people through a short body scan exercise.
— Nov 13, 2026 05:57AM
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Exercises for dealing with difficult thoughts and emotions.
— Nov 12, 2026 09:05AM
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Defining Values. Making a conscious decision to move towards values that are important to you makes life better. The science that backs this idea. Example practices. What matters to you?
— Nov 10, 2026 06:37AM
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Talking about the difference between the thinking mind and the observing mind. Exercises.
— Nov 09, 2026 06:50AM
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Most people want to eliminate toxic thoughts. But what do you do when the thoughts won’t go away no matter what you do? This chapter dealt with what to do when thought suppression doesn’t work (and thought suppression rarely does work)
— Nov 09, 2026 06:30AM
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Harris talks about how you interact with thought and internal stories becomes part of the problem and how to solve it in a science backed way.
— Nov 07, 2026 11:46AM
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This section guides you through a cost benefit analysis of your thought control and avoidance strategies, keeping long-term results in focus.
— Nov 06, 2026 05:48AM
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I am in a middle of a discussion about why and when thought suppression and control strategies tend not to work (and what does work)
— Nov 05, 2026 12:01PM

