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Lydia
is 60% done
He is going to put her over his lap, not to punish her but to center and focus her - I just truly don't understand that. To me spanking = punishment. Every time I read about a spanking it makes me want to crawl into a little ball and cry b/c I can imagine myself in their position. And I imagine it would take me a few days to get out of the funk mood the spanking would have put me in
— Apr 04, 2019 07:44AM
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Lydia
is 50% done
WTF!? "he had not always been a fan of aftercare" WTF. AFTERCARE IS ESSENTIAL to this type of relationship, without it, it is basically abuse to the metal health of the sub. I was doing ok with this one right up until that point.
Also, I REALLY don't understand the theme of spankings as cathartic for the sub. Every time those types of scenes are played out in stories I'm on the verge of tears
— Apr 04, 2019 05:09AM
Also, I REALLY don't understand the theme of spankings as cathartic for the sub. Every time those types of scenes are played out in stories I'm on the verge of tears
