Megan’s Reviews > The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child: With No Pills, No Therapy, No Contest of Wills > Status Update

Dr. Kazdin begins by teaching a valuable idea to change behavior with behavior. We do this by creating a "Positive Opposite". "Let's change one parental habit right now, and for good. Instead of thinking of your child's behavior in terms of what you don't want-He has too many tantrums or It drives me crazy when she doesn't listen- start thinking in terms of the behavior you do want. "