Joe Strouth’s Reviews > Talking Back to Purity Culture: Rediscovering Faithful Christian Sexuality > Status Update

Seems like a "no duh" comment but millions of Christian men were raised without this:
"If you treat women like objects [of lust], you won't find satisfaction in that. Sexuality is about vulnerability and acceptance. You can only find those things in a person you respect. Respect doesn't mean treat politely and gentlemanly. Respect means that you think of the other person as being as much a person as you are."