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A neat encapsulation of the changing times: in 1637, George Wilkins published a dour and moral Jacobean tragedy, The Miseries of Inforst Marriage; in the late 1670s, Aphra adapted the play, but this time as a farcical comedy, The Town-Fopp, complete with an accidential-lesbianism subplot...
Nov 02, 2021 09:17AM
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For my own future refence, I'll round off with a brief map of what's in which chapter:
Jul 12, 2022 10:05AM
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Let me with Sappho and Orinda be
Oh ever sacred Nymph, adorn'd by thee;
And give my Verses Immortality.


Well, that's that finished (from here on is just notes, bibliography and index). Though it'll take me some time to go back through and add some notes for the last 90 pages...
May 29, 2022 01:09PM
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Wastrel
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Bulstrode Whitelocke succinctly sums up Aphra's (ex-)boyfriend: "an Atheist, a Sodomite professed, a corruptor of youth, & a Blasphemer of Christ".
[he was also probably a murderer, but that wasn't controversial enough in those days to be worth mentioning]
Feb 18, 2022 02:29PM
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"Custom is unkind to our Sex; not to allow us free choice, but we above all Creatures must be forced to endure the formal recommendations of a Parent; and the more insupportable Addresses of an Odious Foppe, whilst the Obedient Daughter stands - thus - with her Hands pinn'd before her, a set look, few words, and a mein that cries - 'come marry me - out upon't!'"

(from 'Sir Patient Fancy')
Nov 02, 2021 09:26AM
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Wastrel
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A constant problem with a biography of Aphra Behn is that we know very, very little about her. But it could be worse: now we're being introduced to her fellow female poet, Ephelia - about whom we know absolutely nothing. Todd guesses she was a lowborn actress; others have suggested she was instead a duchess and the sister of the PM.

Todd claims they were friends but I don't think there's any basis for that?
Oct 02, 2021 12:50PM
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Wastrel
Wastrel is on page 167 of 560
Interesting the multiple instances of women openly bargaining for open relationships. Behn herself, in a poem to her married boyfriend cautions: "do not take / Freedoms you'll not to me allow". In Ravenscroft's 'Careless Lovers', the marriage negotiations include a demand for sexual liberty for both; Euphemia in Behn's 'The Dutch Lover' asks 'would you have conscience to tye me to harder conditions than I would you?'
Jul 01, 2021 04:42AM
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Wastrel
Wastrel is on page 159 of 560
The epilogue to a Dryden play has an actress (Dryden's girlfriend) explain why playwrights were now obsessed with having women play male roles: so that they can be "To the men women, and to the women men... in dreams both sexes may their passions ease". Not just an example of the popularity of gender fluidity in this period, but also interesting in explicitly appealing to the sexual gaze of the female audience.
May 31, 2021 02:40PM
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"Masks have made more cuckolds than the best faces that ever were known"
- a character in Wycherley's "The Country Wife".
May 25, 2021 08:51AM
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Strange that in talking about 'To Mrs Harsenet' - in which Behn admits that her boyfriend is right to want to cheat on her, because Harsenet is stupendously wonderful, but warns her that she should have higher standards, because Behn's boyfriend isn't worth it and she should have someone who understands how great she is - Todd doesn't consider that Behn's unnamed better suitor for Harsenet might be... herself.
Apr 22, 2021 11:46AM
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Finally we arrive at reality: Behn enters history as "160" or "Mrs Affora", a spy sent to the Low Countries.
Todd insists on undermining her at every turn, calling her "naive" and "inexperienced", assuming she is inept and unable to operate secretly, claiming she will be in awe of any member of the Royal Society she meets, etc...
Apr 14, 2021 04:00PM
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Wastrel (when the hero is 'forced' (by greed for an inheritence) to marry a woman he doesn't love, the woman he DOES love disguises herself as a man to be nearer to him, so obviously the hero's new wife (upset by the fact her husband refuses to have sex with her) immediately falls in love with her. This is offputting for the woman disguised as a man - not used to having women coming on to her - but when the wife finds out her beau is a woman she's just a bit surprised and disappointed).

[and yes, in both versions, the miseries of enforced marriage are seen in terms of the miseries men must endure when forced by greed or ambition to marry someone who they don't find hot - although Behn does at least allow the women involved to be a bit upset by the situation too]


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