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"Custom is unkind to our Sex; not to allow us free choice, but we above all Creatures must be forced to endure the formal recommendations of a Parent; and the more insupportable Addresses of an Odious Foppe, whilst the Obedient Daughter stands - thus - with her Hands pinn'd before her, a set look, few words, and a mein that cries - 'come marry me - out upon't!'"

(from 'Sir Patient Fancy')
Nov 02, 2021 09:26AM
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For my own future refence, I'll round off with a brief map of what's in which chapter:
Jul 12, 2022 10:05AM
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Let me with Sappho and Orinda be
Oh ever sacred Nymph, adorn'd by thee;
And give my Verses Immortality.


Well, that's that finished (from here on is just notes, bibliography and index). Though it'll take me some time to go back through and add some notes for the last 90 pages...
May 29, 2022 01:09PM
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Bulstrode Whitelocke succinctly sums up Aphra's (ex-)boyfriend: "an Atheist, a Sodomite professed, a corruptor of youth, & a Blasphemer of Christ".
[he was also probably a murderer, but that wasn't controversial enough in those days to be worth mentioning]
Feb 18, 2022 02:29PM
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A neat encapsulation of the changing times: in 1637, George Wilkins published a dour and moral Jacobean tragedy, The Miseries of Inforst Marriage; in the late 1670s, Aphra adapted the play, but this time as a farcical comedy, The Town-Fopp, complete with an accidential-lesbianism subplot...
Nov 02, 2021 09:17AM
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A constant problem with a biography of Aphra Behn is that we know very, very little about her. But it could be worse: now we're being introduced to her fellow female poet, Ephelia - about whom we know absolutely nothing. Todd guesses she was a lowborn actress; others have suggested she was instead a duchess and the sister of the PM.

Todd claims they were friends but I don't think there's any basis for that?
Oct 02, 2021 12:50PM
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Interesting the multiple instances of women openly bargaining for open relationships. Behn herself, in a poem to her married boyfriend cautions: "do not take / Freedoms you'll not to me allow". In Ravenscroft's 'Careless Lovers', the marriage negotiations include a demand for sexual liberty for both; Euphemia in Behn's 'The Dutch Lover' asks 'would you have conscience to tye me to harder conditions than I would you?'
Jul 01, 2021 04:42AM
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The epilogue to a Dryden play has an actress (Dryden's girlfriend) explain why playwrights were now obsessed with having women play male roles: so that they can be "To the men women, and to the women men... in dreams both sexes may their passions ease". Not just an example of the popularity of gender fluidity in this period, but also interesting in explicitly appealing to the sexual gaze of the female audience.
May 31, 2021 02:40PM
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"Masks have made more cuckolds than the best faces that ever were known"
- a character in Wycherley's "The Country Wife".
May 25, 2021 08:51AM
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Strange that in talking about 'To Mrs Harsenet' - in which Behn admits that her boyfriend is right to want to cheat on her, because Harsenet is stupendously wonderful, but warns her that she should have higher standards, because Behn's boyfriend isn't worth it and she should have someone who understands how great she is - Todd doesn't consider that Behn's unnamed better suitor for Harsenet might be... herself.
Apr 22, 2021 11:46AM
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Finally we arrive at reality: Behn enters history as "160" or "Mrs Affora", a spy sent to the Low Countries.
Todd insists on undermining her at every turn, calling her "naive" and "inexperienced", assuming she is inept and unable to operate secretly, claiming she will be in awe of any member of the Royal Society she meets, etc...
Apr 14, 2021 04:00PM
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Wastrel Bits like that really add more interest to the question of whether Mrs Behn herself was married, and, if so, to whom, wherefore, and what became of it...


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Wastrel Anyway, Sir Patient Fancy is apparently rather scandalous. Sir Patient's wife accidentally has sex with the wrong secret lover - her excuse is that she's so overwhelmed by loving thoughts of her boyfriend that she has 'no sense left' to notice that she's having sex with an entirely different person. I wonder whether that excuse actually worked back then.

Anyway, Wittmore is meant to be having an affair with Lady Fancy, but is disguising this by pretending to be courting her step-daughter; Lodwick, meanwhile, is actually seducing the step-daughter, but takes the opportunity along the way to sleep with Lady Fancy, who thinks that he's Wittmore at the time. In earlier plays, this would be grounds for some drama - jealousy, regret, guilt - but in this play everyone is found out and nothing really happens, because nobody cares who is sleeping with whom anyway. Meanwhile, Sir Patient is a puritan, and the play has a happy ending, in that Sir Patient, overwhelmed by cynicism, resolves to attend court, aquire a mistress, and 'hate all Conventicles' - for Behn, abandoning your principles is a good thing, because it's Puritans/Republicans/Whigs who have principles.

[however, there is a meaner edge along the way: when Lady Fancy thinks her husband is dead, she celebrates, "I now having no more to do but to bury the stinking corpse of my quondam cuckold, dismiss his daughters, and give [her boyfriend] quiet possession of all!" - again, in plays of an earlier generation this attitude would mark her out as a villain, but for Behn it's hardly disqualifying...]

The play is more explicit than her previous works, as although there's no on-stage sex scene, we do open a scene with a man buttoning his clothes up immediately after the act.


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Wastrel Lady Fancy on the hypocrisies of puritanical men: they "do sneer upon me, pat my Breasts, and cry, 'fie, fie upon this fashion of tempting Nakedness!'"


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Wastrel What has poor Woman done, that she must be
debar'd from sense and sacred poetrie?
why in this age has heaven allow'd you more,
and Women less, of wit than heretofore?
We once were fam'd in story, and could write
equal to men; could govern, nay, could fight.
We still have passive valour - and can show,
would custom give us leave, the active too...
since we no provocation want from you!


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Wastrel (Behn there taking advantage of the custom of having women deliver prologues and epilogues for plays: as a female playwright, she has an accepted space to speak directly to the audience through a female actor, without having to filter the words through the mask of a specific character)

Meanwhile, in royal sexual politics, this is the point where Mazarine finally arrives. de Keroualle, wracked with jealousy (and fear for her position) 'dragged herself' to Sir Patient Fancy in order to watch Charles and Mazarine together in the audience.

(speaking of which: later centuries apparently believed that Gwyn herself delivered that epilogue; but there's no evidence for this, and Todd agrees that it was actress coincidentally named Ann Quin).


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