Tuong Van’s Reviews > The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It > Status Update

Many tips for women how to connect emotionally with husbands. Remember Pavlov conditioning? Train him a little at a time with appreciation and compliments for effort (even botched ones). Making marriage works also requires "hard work, tremendous effort, focus" like everything else.
Oh, and for 12% who cheat no matter what, better give up as soon as finding out. The pains outweigh any possible gains for staying.

Warning signs:
1.Spend more time away from home
-55% when close to infidelity
-61% when involved
2.Have sex infrequently
-34% close to infidelity
-43% during
3. Avoid contacts
-29% before
-24% during
4. Criticize more
-25% before
-19% during
5. Start more fights 25%
6. Tell about the other woman.

Influence of friends & family: faithful men have less acquaintances who cheat than cheating men. Most to least influences: close friends, immediate family members, father.
The affair:
-54% one woman
-46% multiple affairs.
Duration:
-47% <1 year
-24% between 1-2 years
-9% 2-4 years
-20% >4 years
Average time before 1st infidelity 6 years

Causes of emotional dissatisfaction:
-37% underappreciated by wife, not thoughtful or caring
-17% emotionally disconnected
-11% lack of communication
-10% no longer share same values
12% wife lost temper
Overall
54% related to wives' appreciation, thoughtfulness & emotional connection

42-question survey, from divorcing classes, international online survey firm specializing in medical and psychological researches; cheaters & non-cheaters from 48 states, mirrored US demography, n=200;
Men cheat because dissatisfaction
-48% primarily emotional
-32% equal emotional & sexual
-12% other/no
-8% primarily sexual
Overall marriage dissatisfaction
-59% emotional
-29% sexual
-12% other

I come across this by accident, but now I know!!!