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If a relationship is built upon one member being the caretaker, and the other being the wounded, then when the wounded becomes better, the foundation of the relationship is gone.
— Jan 11, 2023 09:48AM
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Luke T
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People usually cheat on their partners for reasons other than sex or physical attraction. It’s usually a matter of either a lack of intimacy or a fear of intimacy.
— Jan 12, 2023 09:21AM
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Marriages and families are emotional systems rather than a set of individuals, and families will often stop the forward progress of other members in order to keep the status quo.
— Jan 11, 2023 09:47AM
Luke T
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Love is wanting to go back to the feeling of being completely one with someone else.
— Jan 11, 2023 09:37AM
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Projective Identification: people will project personality traits onto their significant other in order to disassociate from those traits, to the point that they can only perceive those traits as existing in the partner.
— Jan 11, 2023 09:23AM
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Family problems are often systemic issues, and it’s important to recognize those issues in order to not perpetuate them (just don’t overcompensate).
— Jan 11, 2023 09:18AM
Luke T
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Things you initially like about someone can become the things that you dislike the most. Relationships are about coming to a mutual understanding of each others’ world view.
— Jan 11, 2023 09:16AM
