I O’s Reviews > Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children > Status Update

Some thoughts that were particularly helpful were how a parent needs to separate their own pain from their children's. While disciplining and the children's upset feelings may be painful for the parent to witness, the pain of discipline and maturity are actually good for the children. But if the child is misbehaving due to trauma or other needs, then the parents need to look deeper.