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For a child or an adult, it's extremely powerful to say, "I get you. I understand. I see why you feel this way." This kind of empathy disarms us. It relaxes our rigidity. It soothes our chaos. Even if an emotion seems ridiculous to you, don't forget that it's very real to your child, so you don't want to dismiss something that's important to her.
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Feelings are neither good nor bad, neither valid nor invalid. They simply are. There's nothing wrong with getting angry, being sad, or feeling frustrated that you want to destroy something. But saying it's OK to feel like destroying something doesn't mean it's OK to actually do it.
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Every time a child gets specific and discusses his own emotional experience, he gains more insight into himself and deepens his own self-understanding.
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