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Attachment theory (old): people behave in relationship is shaped by upbringing
1.Secure: from parents being responsive and available; subjects feel comfortable with intimacy
2.Anxious: inconsistent parenting; worry about being loved
3.Avoidant: stems from distant, unresponsive care; minimize closeness
Secure people communicate expectations and respond to their partner's needs effectively without 'protest behaviors'
— Sep 30, 2024 07:35PM
1.Secure: from parents being responsive and available; subjects feel comfortable with intimacy
2.Anxious: inconsistent parenting; worry about being loved
3.Avoidant: stems from distant, unresponsive care; minimize closeness
Secure people communicate expectations and respond to their partner's needs effectively without 'protest behaviors'
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“Calmness of mind does not mean you should stop your activity. Real calmness should be found in the activity itself. It is easy to have calmness in inactivity, but calmness in activity is true calmness.”
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"A problem with self-reliance is the self part. It forces you to ignore the needs of your partner and concentrate only on your own needs, shortchanging you of one of the most rewarding human experiences: It prevents you (and the person you love) from the joy of feeling part of something bigger than yourself"
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1. Codependency Myth: Ideal relationship involves 2 self-sufficient individuals unite in a mature, respectful way, & maintaining clear boundaries
2. Biological Truth: In intimate relationships, partners regulate each other's psychological and emotional well-being
3. Dependency Paradox: To achieve independence and happiness, find the right person to depend on and journey through life together - New Attachment theory
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2. Biological Truth: In intimate relationships, partners regulate each other's psychological and emotional well-being
3. Dependency Paradox: To achieve independence and happiness, find the right person to depend on and journey through life together - New Attachment theory
