Becca Kellner’s Reviews > Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life > Status Update

Didn’t love that in the opening there are abounding statements indicating- it’s not you it’s the rest of the world. I understand the sentiment of wanting to validate the individual experience and normalize the isolating feelings of feeling different but not everything should be categorized as ‘normal’ or acceptable, specifically if harmful or perverse. I don’t like the victim narrative.