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Contract Matrimony (The Sonnet) | Abhijit Naskar | Dervis Vadisi: 100 Promissory Sonnets
When I fall, I fall wholly –
without a safety net of any kind.
Prenups are an insult of love,
all in fear of an imaginary night.
Contract lovers are worse
than contract killers,
at least contract killers
don’t second guess their motive.
Either love or don’t,
there’s no second guessing –
either marry or don’t,
there’s no contract matrimony.
Prenups are for juveniles,
Clauses are for cowards.
To seek escape in commitment,
is an act of con, not love.
Escapists have no right to love,
Lovers have no need for escape.
When you change exes like socks,
It’s a sickness, not a choice.
without a safety net of any kind.
Prenups are an insult of love,
all in fear of an imaginary night.
Contract lovers are worse
than contract killers,
at least contract killers
don’t second guess their motive.
Either love or don’t,
there’s no second guessing –
either marry or don’t,
there’s no contract matrimony.
Prenups are for juveniles,
Clauses are for cowards.
To seek escape in commitment,
is an act of con, not love.
Escapists have no right to love,
Lovers have no need for escape.
When you change exes like socks,
It’s a sickness, not a choice.
Published on April 25, 2024 15:49
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breakup, divine-love, divorce, lovers, marriage, marriage-counseling, married, matrimony, prenup, prenuptial-agreement, relationship, selfless-love, sufism, unconditional-love, wedding, wedding-vows
Love, Sex & Drugs (The Sonnet)
Stoneage immorality
was bedlock out of wedlock,
civilized immorality
is bedlock out of lovelock.
Who you sleep with is your business,
but to sleep without love isn’t gallantry.
It may be accepted as adolescent folly,
part of growing up is to surpass frivolity.
Mindless sex and drugs are for the animals,
humans have no business with such nonsense.
It’s one thing to indulge once in a while,
another to take it as life’s daring object.
Opposite of puritanism isn’t perversion,
any animal knows how to fill a hole.
Intimacy doesn’t mean baring your body,
intimacy means baring your soul.
was bedlock out of wedlock,
civilized immorality
is bedlock out of lovelock.
Who you sleep with is your business,
but to sleep without love isn’t gallantry.
It may be accepted as adolescent folly,
part of growing up is to surpass frivolity.
Mindless sex and drugs are for the animals,
humans have no business with such nonsense.
It’s one thing to indulge once in a while,
another to take it as life’s daring object.
Opposite of puritanism isn’t perversion,
any animal knows how to fill a hole.
Intimacy doesn’t mean baring your body,
intimacy means baring your soul.
Published on November 23, 2024 02:10
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Tags:
addicted, addiction, aroused, couple, couple-goals, crazy-in-love, divine-love, erotic, erotica, eroticism, horny, i-love-you, intercourse, intimacy, intimate, love-making, love-you, lover, make-love, marriage, married, partner, pervert, promiscuity, relationship, romance, sex, sexual, sexuality, wedlock


