Lori Alexander's Blog

FROM A MOTHER IN SOUTH AFRICA

Things I’ve gained and lost when I left the (government-controlled) workforce as a teacher in my 40’s:

Gained:
1. Presence and time with my precious children
2. Freedom to choose how I fill my day (not endless to- do-lists I don’t want to participate in)
3. Peace over pointless drama
4. A regulated nervous system
5. Balanced cortisol and hormones = better health
6. A healthy gut
7. Peaceful sleep at night
8. Improved mental health
9. New hobbies like baking sourdough bread
10. Energy to form new connections (even building lasting friendships)
11. Most importantly: More intimate relationship with my Father in Heaven as a result of having more time for Bible study, journaling and prayer
12. More fulfillment, life satisfaction, and happiness
13. Zest for life!
14. My sense of humor (Yes, I belly laugh again and enjoy my life)
15. Contentment and gratefulness
16. Time for charity (since my cup is full I can now pour from the overflow)
17. Time for silence and reflection
18. Independence from coping meds (now, unmedicated and free)

Lost:
1. Toxic work cultures
2. A dysregulated nervous system due to constant flight/fight mode
3. Crazy anxiety due to chronic stress and micro-management
4. Sky high cortisol due to being overwhelmed and exhausted
5. Insecurities due to exposure of daily disrespect/disregard
6. Burnout due to nervous system overload
7. No work/life balance
8. Chronic fatigue
9. Depression (by being surrounded by draining people)
10. Poor sleep at night (nervous system overload)
11. Unhealthy coping mechanisms like consumerism, food, noise, alcohol, or anything to numb the pain and release fake happiness
12. Resentment (for not being able to quit and feminism who sold us a lie: “Women can do it all!” Spoiler alert: We can BUT at what cost? Something is going to give. And usually it is the marriage.)
13. Rage (for witnessing unfairness and having zero control over it)
14. Mom guilt (for dropping my baby with strangers for eight hours every day)
15. Resentment for having two jobs: one exhausting job teaching other people’s children all day long and then being too depleted for my real job I actually want to do: being a wife and mother
16. Mental instability
17. Jealous of mothers who have the privilege to raise their own children full-time and not with what little energy is left in your “free-time”
18. Office gossip
19. Surveillance cameras masquerading as colleagues
20. Fake connections and forced small talk with people you don’t like and who don’t like you (like in the mutual kitchen) when making coffee
21. Constant noise and overstimulating environments especially in between classes on the corridors
22. Never ending paperwork that is time consuming  and energy wasting
23. Unnecessary competition – Certain colleagues love to compete with you without your mutual agreement
24. Boring nit-picking meetings
25. Dealing with big ego’s and small minds
26. Lousy staff surprises. Just let me do my job, pay me and send me home!
27. Dependence on meds to cope. Ask any teacher nowadays…
28. The desire to start a family during my fertile years due to burnout. Lucky for me, God is forgiving and granted me two natural pregnancies at age 39 and 41, but I very well could have ended up childless and missed out on my biggest blessing from above! The tragedy even thinking about the loss of joy I would’ve experienced had the Holy Spirit not convicted me. At the age of 38, after tumultuous years as a married teacher, I was convicted to give up my birth control and let God decide whether we should have children or not. It turned out that I was getting in His way because if I could easily conceive at age 38 and again at 40, then I can only imagine how many lovely kids we could have had today!

Marry young and have children, women. This is the best use of your time here on earth. Nothing else will satisfy. It is what we are called to do, not to compete with men in the work force. And God commands women to be keepers at home so they don’t blaspheme the word of God (Titus 2:5).

With love,
A mother from South-Africa

For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Isaiah 55:9

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Bendall Werry wrote this post on X last year:

It is shared often on X. It is proven true over and over again by women who have large public platforms. Just this week, Lila Rose’s post was being shared:

Feminism was rotten from its roots. It’s rebellion against God and His ordained authority structure. She fights against abortion, but it’s feminism that led to abortion.

Whenever I would see Werry’s Law being passed around, I knew it would never describe me. John Moody on Facebook shared both of these posts above recently. I wrote this underneath his: “I have a public platform, but I will never lean towards liberalism. I stick to God’s Word alone and teach only what He commands I teach. I make no money so I am not beholden to anyone. My only goal is for women to understand God’s beautiful will for them.”

A man responded under my comment: “But you’re not building a business empire. (Not saying authors can’t) but it seems to me podcasting especially under the network subscription model (think DW as an example) is about building a business and not teaching people. You’re trying to help women. Many women podcasters profit from appealing to men without actually helping women.”

I am not a business empire. I have no employees. I teach women exactly what God commands me to teach in Titus 2:4,5. I make no money on my social media platforms, and the money I make from my books goes to a local pro-life organization. I don’t make podcasts interviewing other people. I don’t travel nor speak at conferences. I am home full time and always available for my family.

I see many young female influencers with large platforms who make a lot of money, travel for interviews and conferences, and they have children at home. There is no way they are always available for their families. They aren’t keepers at home, as God commands them to be. Many of them are breadwinners for their families. This is not God’s order.

One woman responded to John’s post with these words: “Right. All those bastions of feminist liberal sellouts à la Elisabeth Elliot, Agatha Christie, Catherine Booth, Florence King, Mother Teresa, Margaret Thatcher, Florence Nightingale, Phyllis Schlafly, Jeane Kirkpatrick, Amy Carmichael, Clare Boothe Luce, and Edith Stein. They should stayed in the kitchen where they belonged, am I right? I understand making generalizations, but this isn’t a useful one because it implies that all conservative women are in danger (or too stupid/gullible) when they participate in the public sphere, and that’s just not true. And it’s an ultra-modern take that ignores great female conservatives in history.”

John responded: “It only takes 10 minutes of historical research to know the vast majority of women listed above were absolute disasters on so many different levels. It’s almost hilarious. Someone tries to cite them as Stallworth examples of conservative femininity. You almost have to be completely ignorant of the history of a lot of these women to make such an audacious claim and not consider how easily fact checked it would be…Amy Carmichael was a false teacher and rebel who taught procreation and children were bad and ruled over others in a way immoral and unbiblical for both men and women in any position to do.”

Why have I shared this? I want to warn you young women who have an ambition to have a large, public platform that takes you away from caring full time for your family and home. You must obey God. His ways are good! Fame and fortune are fleeting but investing your life into your family has eternal rewards. Keep your eyes upon this. Remind yourself that godliness with contentment is great gain. Continue to be the wife, mother, and homemaker that God has called you to be. Stick close to His Word and His ways for you. His ways are good!

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Proverbs 31:27

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Written By Pastor James Knox in His Book “Victorious Christian Living“

The Spirit of the living God next instructs godly women to train women newly saved to be … keepers at home (Titus 2:5). At the very thought of such a thing, the modern, independent, liberated woman thinks, “So what am I supposed to be, some kind of a slave?!”

So let us draw a quick comparison.

First, consider the woman is who free from the demands of that horrible old Bible written by women haters for women haters.

This woman has to rise at 6:00 am to rush through coffee and a bit of breakfast. She fixes her hair (because she is going somewhere), fixes her face (because she is going somewhere), dresses nicely (because she is going somewhere). (It has to be said because she would not do those things for her husband.) She jumps in the car to sit in traffic for an hour. She then spends eight hours having a man tell her what to do and how to do it and when to do it (which she will do for money but not for her husband). She then gets back in the traffic for another hour. This is what the modern woman calls freedom.

Second, we have a woman whose husband rises early and heads out to work all day. He will earn money to provide her with a house, furniture, food, clothing, a refrigerator, a pantry, central air and heat, transportation, etc. This is what the modern woman calls being some kind of a slave. Television convinces the silly women watching that this is oppression. Think about that. Someone is out working to pay her way through life while she sits comfortably and watches women on TV talk about how males mistreat females.

It is time some preachers declared sound doctrine!

I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
1 Timothy 5:14

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David Edgington wrote a book titled “White Knights and Reviling Wives” and asked me to give a review of it. So, I read it, and it only took me a few days! It is easy to read and very informative. Since I have been mentoring women for over 22 years, I have encountered reviling wives. My husband has mentored many men with reviling wives. It’s absolutely devastating for the men married to them. It would be better for them to live on the corner of a roof or in the wilderness, as King David warned men about quarreling and contentious wives. They tear their homes down with their own hands (Proverbs 14:1).

David Edgington has mentored many couples with a reviling wife. Few ever change. They are trapped in their rebellion against God due to a hardened heart. He wrote, “If she remains in her sinful state, it is evidence that she is not truly born again.” True believers in Jesus Christ are known by their fruit. If the fruit is only bad, they are most likely not true believers.

How does a woman become a reviling wife? She wants to rule her husband as Genesis 3:16 states. It’s all about control. We have this desire to control our husbands, except maybe the golden retriever type personalities. We think we know best, so when our husbands aren’t listening to us and doing as we insist. we become bitter, then bitterness defiles us.

This book is mainly written to men who have reviling wives, and for pastors who mentor couples in this situation. The sad thing is that many pastors agree with the wives (white knights) and secular courts are all feminized, so men have little chance of overcoming in this situation. Most reviling wives end up divorcing their husbands, taking more than half of their stuff and money, then turn their children and even grandchildren against them. It’s no wonder so many young men no longer want to get married! These reviling wives are wicked. They are being led by the enemy of their souls whose goal is to kill, steal, and destroy.

David also warns about three women in particular who are leading many women astray and destroying many marriages with their abominable teachings. Sheila Gregoire is one of them. My husband and I tried to reason with her many years ago. We could easily see her false teachings. She always sides with the women against their husbands. She actually trains women to divorce. Don’t learn from these women! We are to mark and avoid false teachers.

He does teach men how to stand strong against their reviling wives. He even seems to believe they have a reason to divorce when their reviling wives leave them sexually, emotionally, and eventually physically (moves away). They have abandoned their husbands completely. These women will reap what they have sown.

So, why should women read this book? In order to recognize a reviling woman. They infiltrate churches too. Women also need to make sure they don’t become one and have no traits of a reviling woman. It also proves the great need for the “aged women” in the churches to get going and teach the younger women biblical womanhood as God commands in Titus 2:3-5. Women breathe the feminist agenda their entire lives. They know nothing else. Reviling wives are going to become more and more common as women continue to reject God’s will for them. We must be prepared to give an answer for our faith, and why the path they are on only leads to destruction.

I hope you will all read this book. It is worth your time. I have been teaching most of these things to women for years, but it’s always good to hear from a man’s perspective who is dealing with these abused men. You can order the book HERE.

It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
Proverbs 21:19

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Written By JD@LostMyHats on X.

The architects of this world are still praised as philanthropists. The Rockefeller Foundation funds gender equity initiatives across Africa. The Ford Foundation funds microloans for female entrepreneurs in Asia. These programs are celebrated as humanitarian victories, but they function as colonization by credit. Once a woman borrows, she belongs. Once a nation adopts the model, it becomes a client state of the banks.

This is why feminism could spread faster than communism. It promised equality while delivering dependence. The Marxist says the worker should own the means of production. The banker says the worker should become the means of production. Feminism achieved what no other ideology could: the consent of its victims. Women volunteered to be taxed, indebted, and surveilled, all while believing it was progress.

Every major Western government now depends on female employment to balance its books. The results are measurable in despair. Women report higher rates of anxiety, depression, and burnout than any previous generation. Antidepressant use among women has increased more than 250 percent since the early 1990s.

The cultural promise that career success would bring fulfillment has collapsed under the weight of lived experience. The office cubicle became a modern monastery, filled with nuns of nihilism serving the deity of direct deposit. They were told they could “have it all,” but what they received was exhaustion without inheritance.

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Proverbs 31:27

My words: This is why I take the exhortation for women to be “keepers at home” in Titus 2:5 to literally mean keepers at home: women’s work is in and around the home. Nothing good has come from women leaving their homes for the workforce, only suffering and destruction to the entire family unit. Women weren’t created for the workforce. They were created for the home. More and more studies come out every year to prove that this is true.

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Here’s an incredible response to Allie Beth Stuckey by Pat Stedman on X.

I genuinely believe you are operating in good faith.

But you and all the other conservative Christian women who get on stage and talk about the problems with men (regardless of how correct you may be) unfortunately do not understand what you are doing isn’t only unhelpful, it’s inherently contradictory. Rather than solve the problem of male leadership you lament, you in fact underline the cause of it.

Men become leaders for one reason: because a man – either from his own will or from fate thrusting it upon him – realizes that he must. He notices there is a problem that needs to be solved. He either sees incompetence or a vacuum and decides he must step forward to either correct or fill it.

A man does not become a leader when he is nagged into it by a woman. A man does not become a leader when the legitimacy of his actions is measured by how much they align with a woman’s interests. He does not have authority in such a scenario because his authority is constantly questioned. He has the responsibility of acting and bears the consequences of these actions, but he lacks agency to determine which actions to take. He might be out in front, but he is not a leader – he is a sock puppet. Really, he is a slave.

This is how most women want it or at least. It’s what they have been taught is normal and correct. Liberal feminist women do not want men to have any authority and so, this undermining is natural and congruent to them. Yet most conservative women in practice operate in the same way, even though they do not align ideologically with feminism. They DO want men to lead. They just want them to lead the way they want them to.

These women think this is okay, and that there is no reason they shouldn’t tell men what and how to fix things, because this will help men to lead better. But it does not. What it does – especially for men who have been emasculated all their lives – is it makes them shut down and escape. They realize they don’t have authority, so naturally they shirk responsibility. By instructing men you are telling them they are stupid and that you don’t trust them to step up on their own. You are mothering: they respond like little boys accordingly.

So, what are you supposed to do? You are actually, believe it or not, supposed to get out of the way. You are supposed to create the vacuum – to say, “Men, we have these problems. Can you fix them?” You are supposed to submit and surrender to our judgement and authority, and to trust our competence, not to tell us what to do. You are supposed to believe in us and our latent capability and foresight. You are not supposed to second guess us or argue. And if we make mistakes, which is inevitable, you are supposed to have faith that we will figure things out and course correct.

I understand obviously this submission is scary for most women. It is the fairer sex’s big stumbling block. You see it in the discourse on here all the time; the defensive and angry demeanors of women hardened towards life and love. It’s unsurprising of course. Many women have been disappointed and betrayed by men who have fallen short of their hopes and expectations. Yet, while a woman should be judicious in her selection of a man, if she is to ever feel cherished and retain her femininity, she still must ultimately give herself up to him. This requires deep trust, and it’s why when women choose men in their love lives, they should choose men with vitality and, most importantly, integrity.

Yet, hard as it may be to surrender, if a woman is to remain in essence a woman, she must nevertheless find the courage to do it. In the same way that a man is defective if he does not lead, a woman is defective if she does not submit. This is what men mean today when we say, “Women aren’t women anymore.” Women like you, Allie, mean well but you do not know how to let go of control. You do not know how to get out of the way. Frankly, you do not know when to shut up.

The good news is that the response men are having towards you shows that men are actually becoming men again. It may still be the early, adolescent rebellious stage against the devouring mother that our society – and yes, our Church – has become. It may at times seem immature and petulant. But it is nevertheless the sign of a masculine spirit stirring: a spirit which is at its core is sovereign and resists being controlled.

Because the first step of men becoming men again, ironically enough, is when they no longer care about listening to women. That is not because women aren’t important to men. Women at their best inspire and support us, indeed our growth and strength comes from our need to care for you and please you. It grows from the extent of our responsibility, which masculine men invariably seek out as they gain more authority.

But it does not come from listening to your lectures, which are not only disrespectful but frankly have little value to us; not because you are wrong about us per se, but because when women do not take responsibility for their own behavior, their judgment of us is unearned and becomes irrelevant. This is not sexist. It is also how men treat other men. Masculine men only care about the opinions of men who are in the arena. If you enter the domain of men, be prepared to be treated like one.

In the end, if society is fixed, it will come down to the men finally stepping up on their own and doing what must be done. Women can help with this, but not in the way they have been doing it. They can only do so by creating the vacuum for men to step forward more easily. Indeed, the most productive thing conservative women can do with their platforms is to focus their attention on other women, calling out their own sex’s vices and entitlement, and encouraging more humility. In other words, to focus on the problems women today have – which are equally manifold – rather than attempting to solve men’s. Men will sort out their own. We already are. What men need are not your exhortations but your actual faith. And I mean faith in action. Your prayers for us are beautiful, but they come across as empty and self-centered without your surrender.

Not every man will rise to the task when you give him this trust. But most will – far more than most women appreciate – and the performance and courage of men in the West will rise in proportion to the amount of trust their women put in them. The blueprint for manhood is still in us, even if we have forgotten how to follow it. Yet what we require to remember, it isn’t your advice. It’s your belief.

This is the power of feminine energy that has been forgotten by women today in their foolish and unfruitful quest to be inferior men. They have forgotten that they have the ability to get everything by doing nothing. They are not builders at their core; they are amplifiers. Men naturally create structure, but it’s women who create the reason to make it in the first place.

I hope that women rediscover this power in themselves. The West needs as many muses to survive, as it does warriors.

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
1 Peter 3:1,2

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Mike Winger did a four and a half hour long video on women in ministry. I began listening to it after it came out, but I didn’t agree with him after listening a short time. Recently, there’s been a lot of talk on X about women like Allie Beth Stuckey and what she’s doing. Here is Mike’s defense against the criticism of her yesterday. (His words are in quotes. My response will be right after the quotes.)

“Don’t listen to women because they can’t correct men. Because that’s biblical.” (Here he is explaining what others are saying about Allie Beth up on stage telling men to not watch porn and be leaders at the recent TPUSA conference where a large crowd of men and women were present.)

Now, he goes on to use Scripture to mock the people who said this and argue that women can absolutely correct and teach men publicly.

“Remember when Apollos was like ‘shut up Priscilla, I don’t listen to women telling me what they think’?” He failed to mention that Priscilla was with her husband when they took Apollos aside one time to correct him. They did this privately.

“Or when the king told Hilda, the prophetess, that he didn’t have to listen to a woman because then she would be stealing his role as king?” Hilda prophesied to King Josiah ONCE, and it was done privately.

“Or how the woman at the well was ignored by all the townspeople when she told them to come and see Jesus?” The woman at the well shared this with the men in the town, “Come, see a man, which told me all things that ever I did: is not this the Christ?” (John 4:19). That’s it! She wasn’t correcting men or teaching them. She even asked them a question.

“Or how about that time Barak told Deborah that he didn’t have to go to battle for God because he wasn’t feminine enough to listen to something a woman said?” Deborah prophesied to Barak only three times and gave him commands about the battle against Sisera. She said it to Barak alone, not publicly. Barak’s name was listed in the Hebrew Hall of Faith (chapter 11), not Deborah’s.

“I could go on. No I’m not egalitarian. I spent two years defeating egalitarian arguments in a video series that takes over 40 hours to listen to. Women should not be pastors. Nor should they just do all the pastoral roles and merely call it something other than ‘pastor.’ But patriarchy needs to be informed by biblical truth and will end up empowering women to do more than typical, worldly patriarchalists allow.”

God commands women to be keepers at home so they don’t blaspheme the Word of God in Titus 2:5, and He does forbid women from teaching men in 1 Timothy 2:12. He doesn’t call women to spend time traveling, speaking at conferences to men and women, doing podcasts, writing books, rebuking men, and giving interviews especially when they have children at home. He doesn’t even call older women like me to do this. I don’t want to do all of that! I want to be home. I am thankful I have an avenue where I can teach women and still be home and available to my husband, children, and grandchildren. This is where He wants women to be. It’s best to stay within the boundaries that God has called us to stay in.

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
1 Timothy 2:12

To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Titus 2:5

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In 1958, I was born. The world was a different place back then. When I was sick, my mom would put us in the backseat with a pillow and blanket with some books and coloring books. There were no seatbelts nor screens. (Seatbelts were required the year I turned 16!) When she went into the store, she would leave the windows open for me, and the doors unlocked. There was no fear of me being harmed in any way.

When we wanted to swim, we would go knocking on neighbors’ doors to see if we could use their pool. They almost always let us, so we’d spend hours swimming with no supervision. (We could all swim by then.) We would play outside until sunset riding bikes, hiking, and doing whatever we could think of doing. Again, we had no supervision.

Almost everything was closed on Sundays except grocery stores and restaurants. We would go to church then out to lunch with a bunch of people from church (Sizzlers! ). Afterwards, we would go on a long family drive somewhere just to explore.

We only had landlines but no iPhones or Internet. We did have TVs but there wasn’t that many channels, and most of the shows were far more decent than they are today. For Halloween, my mom made and passed out homemade caramel apples dipped in walnuts and Rice Krispy squares. Everyone loved trick-or-treating at my home! No one worried about drugs put in the food.

School was simple back then too. I never knew the sexual preference of my teachers. No one was changing genders, acting like cats, nor gay. Reading, writing, and arithmetic were the main things taught. In kindergarten, I finger painted, played outside, and took naps. We probably learned the alphabet and numbers too, but it was simple. All throughout my schooling up through high school, I never remember doing homework. We came home and were able to be with family and friends. We didn’t even study for the SAT! We had far less stress in our lives than children do today.

The girls in high school and college weren’t tattooed, pierced besides the ears, strange color of hair, or anything like this. Almost all of us had long hair and dressed like girls. The guys dressed like boys. Girls liked boys, and boys liked girls. That’s all I knew or saw any ways. I am thankful. It wasn’t oppressive like most high school campuses are today. Marxism had not invaded the schools, but feminism had.

Most of us went to college without any debt. I even went to a small, private Christian college for $3600 a year which included everything! All of my friends just went because that’s what we were supposed to do (feminism) but mostly to find husbands. A few of my friends left college after their freshmen year because all they wanted was to be wives, mothers, and homemakers. None of us had a dream of having a career. We were all married in our early twenties and began to have babies soon after that.

Yes, sin has always existed in this world, and bad things have always happened but it was a far more innocent time in the history of America. The farther we drift from God and His Word as a nation, the worse everything becomes. Read Romans 1 for context.

For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
Romans 1:20, 21

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Jillian Sanders wrote an article titled “The Era of Desperate Single Women is Over – Here’s What Women are Choosing Instead.” Jillian wrote, “In quiet, almost invisible ways, they’re taught to be the helper, the caretaker—the one who smooths edges, anticipates needs, and makes life easier for everyone else.” Oh, really? No, we’re taught to be feminists from the time we are toddlers. Girls are constantly asked what they want to be when they grow up, and they’re not allowed to say wife, mother, and homemaker. They must name a career and believe that they never want to be dependent upon a man since they are strong and independent!

“Across the country, women are opting out of marriages, timelines, and expectations that no longer fit.” This is true but is it good? No, birth rates are tanking. Depression and suicide in women have skyrocketed. A large portion of women are on anti-depressants. Women not wanting God’s will for them but instead live in rebellion to Him have harmed them in numerous ways.

“According to Harvard Health Publishing, married men are healthier, live longer, and experience greater emotional well-being than their unmarried counterparts—and those benefits increase the longer they stay married. For women, the benefits are more mixed. Many take on a larger share of caregiving, housework, and emotional labor—even while working full-time. Over time, the weight of it all can quietly wear them down.” I hope you all see the problem here. “Even while working full-time…” Women wanted to have it all. They wanted a career, marriage, and children. It’s not good for men to be alone. God created a helper for him. Unfortunately, most men’s helper has gone her own way and is rarely home, so she’s rarely available for the children and him. This is a recipe for divorce.

“Only 34 percent of single women in the U.S. are actively seeking romantic relationships, compared to 54 percent of single men, according to a 2022 Pew Research Center study.” Women are choosing their careers and growing old alone with their cats rather than marriage, children, and being homemakers. They have been deceived greatly.

“Research also shows that women are nearly twice as likely as men to seek therapy, engage in self-reflection, and pursue emotional growth. In heterosexual relationships, this often places them in the role of emotional first responder—initiating hard conversations, managing the emotional environment, and sustaining connection. Over time, this imbalance leads to burnout. No wonder nearly 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women—not because they’re unwilling to work at love, but because they’re tired of doing all the work alone.” The issue here is the greatest problem most women have. They allow their emotions to rule them rather than Truth. Instead of taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, they allow their sinful flesh, worldly lusts, and feminism to lead and guide them down a wicked path of destruction.

“One woman I spoke to, who is 38, said she’s torn: ‘I don’t want to raise a child alone, but I also don’t want to get married just to have help.’ Still, more and more women are forging ahead sans partner. Clinics are reporting a rise in solo motherhood by choice, with more single women pursuing IUI, IVF, or adoption.” Children NEED fathers! My husband works hard so I can be home full time. I was always available for my children. My children were secure knowing their dad would always come home and play with them, talk with them, and love them. The lies these women are believing is so heartbreaking.

The bottom line is women are not being taught how to be good and godly wives and mothers. They’re being taught to be feminists who demand their own way which has led them to nothing good.

Thus saith the Lord, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls. But they said, We will not walk therein.
Jeremiah 6:16

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This post is from a sermon given by Pastor James Know titled “Spiritual Women.” I encourage all of you to listen!

I don’t have six degrees in Psychology, thank God, and all the rest of that but if God ordained that the home have a male ruler and a vast number of people growing up in your society have never had a male ruler, it is no wonder they are confused about their sexuality or their gender or their purpose in life or their role in society because they have been living in a situation that is out of order, and God help us if they come to church and see us promoting the same.

You have a city full of trained police officers, ex-military men, SWAT teams, and firefighters, and you can’t control a gang of 20 teenagers. You know why? Because the women on your city council think it’s mean, and so children oppress you because women are your rulers. Every one of these cities that’s out of control and doesn’t know what to do about their crime, their violence, their murder, and their killing have women DAs, women judges, and women on the city council. Women are kind, and women city council are kind, loving, and gracious and shouldn’t we just be nice? and shouldn’t we just be compassionate? You’re going to get yourself killed! You need a man to turn the men loose on the boys.

You can be quiet. It’s okay. Don’t commit yourself, but you really need to turn that TV off. It’s warping your mind. Men are supposed to rule children. Well, for how long? If a man know how to rule his own house, you can do what I say or you can go pay your own rent. Do what I say or get a get a roof over your own head. You’re going to sit in my house, eat my groceries, put your hind on my furniture, eat meals that my wife cooks for you, you’re going to shut your mouth and do what I tell you!

I’m a conservative. The last five champion heroic conservative women you sent to Congress all dumped their husbands. What exactly are they conserving? We’re not conservatives. We’re Christians. Yes sir, conservatives are so far from the Bible, you wonder if you can see one from the other. Satan is trying to normalize what hurts people and make people that do things God’s way seem abnormal, mean, and hateful. He’s done a great job of it, and these churches that cave into it because they don’t want to take the heat from staying with the Bible are just contributing to the problem.

As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.
Isaiah 3:12

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