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Ilene S. Cohen

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Self Help, Nonfiction, Psychology

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Dr. Ilene S. Cohen, PhD, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, and mother of two young girls. She is one of the most respected voices in the psychology of people-pleasing and navigating the difficulty of living an intentional life while trying to maintain fulfilling relationships. She is the author of 5 books, all of which have received awards and 5-star ratings from her readers. These include her most famous book, When It's Never About You, and her latest book, Anxious for Answers.

She's a regular contributor to Psychology Today, with dedicated readers in the millions. Her books and therapy practice are fueled by a passion for helping people achieve their goals, build a strong sense of self, and lead fulfilling and meaningfu ...more

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Are Relationships Worth the Risk of Being Hurt? Understanding the Meaning of Fulfilling Relationships

Relationships are at the core of what it means to be human. They help to define us, shape our personal experiences, and in many ways give meaning to our lives. Whomever they are with, fulfilling relationships can be the foundation for emotional stability and happiness in life. With that said, relationships are a double-edged sword. Even though they can bring immense joy, love, and growth, they can

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	When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom 4.02 avg rating — 233 ratings — published 2017 — 3 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Anxious for Answers 4.31 avg rating — 52 ratings — 2 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	The Forgiveness Workbook: Cultivate Compassion, Release Resentment, and Find Peace 4.71 avg rating — 17 ratings — 2 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Not Enough You: A People-Pleaser's Journal for Recapturing Your Value and Worth 4.56 avg rating — 9 ratings	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	This Isn't Working for Me: A Practical Guide for Making Every Relationship in Your Life More Fulfilling, Authentic, and Intentional by Ilene S. Cohen (Goodreads Author), Edrica D. Richardson 4.33 avg rating — 9 ratings — 2 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	The Forgiveness Workbook: Cultivate Compassion, Release Resentment, and Find Peace (Workbook Series 1) 4.17 avg rating — 6 ratings — 4 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Adios, Anxiety: A reflective journal for finding the calm within you 4.75 avg rating — 4 ratings — 2 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	This Isn't Working for Me by Ilene S. Cohen (Goodreads Author), Edrica D. Richardson 4.50 avg rating — 4 ratings	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	It’s Within You it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 3 ratings	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Anxious for Answers: The Surprising Truth About Anxiety, and How You Can Master It for Good! by Ilene S. Cohen (Goodreads Author), Natalie Cormier (Narrator) 0.00 avg rating — 0 ratings	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars

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How to End a Love Story

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“The words people say speak more about them than they do about you. If you can keep that in mind the next time someone tries to criticize your life and your choices, you won’t take their words to heart or make them mean anything about who you are as a person.”
― Ilene S. Cohen, When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom

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“Cynthia Kersey reminds us, “The negative comments of others merely reflect their limitations—not yours.”
― Ilene S. Cohen, When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom

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