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Louise Fields writes about relationships with honesty, humor, and a deep compassion for the messy, hopeful ways we love. With a background in psychology and decades of real-life lessons (including dating and sometimes marrying the “wrong letters”), she developed the Alphabet Theory — a playful-but-true way of exploring why we’re drawn to certain partners and how we can choose better for ourselves.

Her mission is to help people understand their patterns without shame, laugh at the beautifully human parts of themselves, and create relationships that feel like home instead of confusion.

When she’s not writing, you can find her developing new self-reflection tools, designing personality-style quizzes for readers, or enjoying everyday life with he
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Holiday Boundaries 101: How to Stay Sane, Classy, and Unbothered All Year Long

There’s something about the end of the year that invites reflection.
Not the dramatic kind. The quiet, “hmm… I don’t want to do that again” kind.

It’s the moment when we realize we’re not interested in carrying old patterns into a new calendar year — especially the ones that left us tired, confused, or over-explaining ourselves to people who weren’t really listening.

This isn’t about becoming cold.

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“You don’t need to be easier to love. You just need to be loved by someone who actually knows how.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“Sometimes the lesson isn’t about why you chose the wrong person. It’s about why you stayed.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“Love is not supposed to feel like a guessing game. Real love feels like an exhale.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“You don’t need to be easier to love. You just need to be loved by someone who actually knows how.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“Patterns don’t repeat because we’re weak. They repeat because they once felt familiar enough to feel like home.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“Sometimes the lesson isn’t about why you chose the wrong person. It’s about why you stayed.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“Love is not supposed to feel like a guessing game. Real love feels like an exhale.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits (Alphabetically Speaking)

“If the relationship requires you to become smaller, quieter, or less yourself, it’s not a relationship—it’s a performance.”
Louise Fields, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters Companion Guide: Decode Love, One Letter at a Time

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