#HaveAVoiceLikeAGirl

When I was considering doing this series of interviews, Susie Meister was an easy choice. Susie Meister began her reality career when she was just 18 years old on MTV's Road Rules. Susie went on to compete on five MTV Challenges and an additional season of Road Rules. As a fan of the show but someone who would never want to live in a house with strangers, I was always impressed with how Susie handled herself on these shows. On television in general and reality television especially, we tend to see several stereotypes of women perpetuated: the pushover, the weak link, the slut, the drunk, and the mean girl. What continually impressed me about Susie was that she made it very hard for producers to put her in any of those categories. She continually won elimination rounds and competitions. She stood up for herself with no hesitation. One of my favorite Challenge moments was when Susie basically threatened to sit on the start line if a male on her team didn't start to be respectful of her earned spot in the final challenge. Maybe more importantly, Susie presented herself as an articulate and strong woman. It is what she has done beyond the scope of The Challenge that I find most impressive. She has a doctorate in religious studies from the University of Pittsburgh. On average, studies show that approximately five out of ten students who begin a Ph.D finish it. It's no easy feat. In addition to being a proud mom, Susie hosts her own podcast series which I highly recommend as the podcasts are a great mix of humor and intellectual discussion. She is also currently working on writing a book.


What was the first thing you wanted to be when you were a child?
SM: I always wanted to perform. I loved being on stage--singing, acting, hosting--even when I was a youngster.


You have such an interesting background. While appearing on several Challenges on MTV, you also completed your doctorate at the University of Pittsburgh. What made you pursue those two things?
SM: I decided to go on Road Rules when I was 18 because I saw it as a great way to see the world and get in front of an audience. After my first season I realized that I wanted to education and credibility for my life after television. Religious Studies came naturally because I grew up very religious and loved studying it. I'm glad I got to do both things!


There are plenty of barriers and stereotypes for women in academia and on television. Did you ever face any? If so, how did you handle them?
SM:I have experienced lots of stereotypes (e.g. blonde, young, female...) and biases (e.g. men are "stronger") in real life and on the shows. They aren't fair, and I really resent them, but I just try to overcome through example. I know that I'm capable and competent, and try to show that. I'm not good at everything, but we all have gifts and talents that are separate from our gender.


What are your goals now?
SM: I'm working on lots of projects, and really enjoy bridging the gap between my academic work and my pop culture interests. I'm writing a book called Being Jesus, where I interview the actors who have played Jesus to see how it affected their faith, life, etc... I also pitch lots of shows to networks that deal with religion in varying way. I love being a wife and mom, and I also love having a career. I do everything better when I have time to pursue my own professional interests.


What is the biggest obstacle you have had to overcome?
SM: The biggest obstacle I have is my own inner monologue that so many of us have. Thoughts of inadequacy or wanting to quit are everyone's biggest challenge. If you can dull that voice and listen to the one that says to do your best every day, then you'll go places. Just keep going.


Who are some of your female role models?
SM: I love Lisa Ling. Her journalism is amazing, and her work with people who otherwise wouldn't have a voice is tremendous. I love Diane Sawyer for the same reasons. I'm inspired by female comedians and authors. Women who speak their voice and don't let their opinions be muted by media, men, society. Those women rock!


What advice would you give to a 13 year old girl?
SM: I really feel for girls growing up now with social media and online bullying. I think the pressure to be "perfect" is more intense than ever. What makes a girl (anyone!) really special though is when they feel comfortable with who they are. I'm not always good at this, but I certainly try every day. I hope teenage girls don't get caught up in "keeping up with the Kardashians," but instead try to keep up with their best selves.


You can follow Susie on Twitter @Susie_Meister. Her twitter account is genuinely funny and one of my favorites. You you can find her podcasts on both iTunes and her website, http://www.susiemeister.com. A huge thank you to Susie for answering these questions. Personally, I don't keep up with the Kardashians, but I do listen to Susie's podcasts.

Next week, we will hear from an endocrinologist.
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on March 19, 2015 15:27
No comments have been added yet.