“Because people who are more creative also tend to be more playful, unconventional, and unpredictable, and all of this makes them harder to control. No matter how much we say we value creation, deep down, most of us value control more. And so we fear change and favor familiarity. Rejecting is a reflex.”
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
“If your idea succeeds, everybody says you’re persistent. If it doesn’t succeed, you’re stubborn.”
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
“Rejection is not persecution. Drain it of its poison and what remains may be useful.”
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
“When you bring something truly new to the world, brace. Having an impact is not usually a pleasant experience. Sometimes the hardest part of creating is not having an idea but saving an idea, ideally while also saving yourself.”
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
“What is not normal about Folkman’s story is his tenacity. It is hard to withstand repeated rejection. But we cannot create unless we know what to do with no.”
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
― How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention, and Discovery
Varun’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Varun’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
More friends…
Favorite Genres
Biography, Book Club, Business, Ebooks, Fiction, Food, History, Non-fiction, Philosophy, Politics, Psychology, Religion, Romance, Science, and Self help
Polls voted on by Varun
Lists liked by Varun






















