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A Soul to Touch (Duskwalker Brides, #3)

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“Just because you understand where someone is coming from, doesn’t mean you approve of where they’re going.”
― K.C. Davis, Who Deserves Your Love: How to Create Boundaries to Start, Strengthen, or End Any Relationship

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“Most people are shocked to realize that people-pleasing isn’t about other people’s comfort—it’s about your own. It’s about your sense of self being so determined by the opinions and feelings of others that you must manage those things by contorting yourself around the needs of others.”
― K.C. Davis, Who Deserves Your Love: How to Create Boundaries to Start, Strengthen, or End Any Relationship

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“Real boundaries aren’t about what you say or do—they are internal. They provide a sense of where I end and you begin—what’s my responsibility and what’s not.”
― K.C. Davis, Who Deserves Your Love: How to Create Boundaries to Start, Strengthen, or End Any Relationship

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“blame does not go to one person alone, but rather that two people are in a system. They act in relation to each other. The enemy is not each other but the dynamic that is triggered between them.”
― K.C. Davis, Who Deserves Your Love: How to Create Boundaries to Start, Strengthen, or End Any Relationship

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“Overfunctioning isn’t about other people but about a lack of internal boundaries. Overfunctioning can manifest in all kinds of behavior, including people-pleasing and enabling, which require a hard look at our own side of the responsibilities chart.”
― K.C. Davis, Who Deserves Your Love: How to Create Boundaries to Start, Strengthen, or End Any Relationship

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