Ernstalito

“At its core, masochism is about choosing pain on purpose, for a reason. And often, in my experience, that reason is to feel bad to feel better.”
― Leigh Cowart, Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

“In answer to the dominatrix at the Torture Garden, I would say that anyone who wears clothes, listens to music, goes to the movies, or is on the Internet might want to know more about fetishism. Certainly, anyone who is “into” fashion has to address the issue.”
― Valerie Steele, Fetish - Fashion, Sex & Power

“Pain seems to have this taboo joy that reminds us that we’re simultaneously fragile and strong to be alive.”
― Leigh Cowart, Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

“I find it [shibari] contagious in its pleasure. The bindings don't limit -- they define your current existence and so relax your mind. Yeah, I know. Sounds weird, but during sex I'm always thinking, wondering what I look like, worrying about how my hair must look, what I smell like, and if the fat roll is rolling. But when you're knotted up in five-thousand pound test rope, you're not going anywhere or doing anything, so you can just relax and enjoy the pleasure he's giving to him and you.”
― Glenn Hefley