“Insecurity is a funny thing. It makes us into someone we're not as a way to cope with someone we used to be.”
― Love Lives Here: Finding What You Need in a World Telling You What You Want
― Love Lives Here: Finding What You Need in a World Telling You What You Want
“In those moments when the two of you see things differently, you can hold on to your view, defending it and protecting it and arguing for its superiority, or you can allow your perspective to be broadened, enriched, expanded, and deepened.”
― The Zimzum of Love: A New Way of Understanding Marriage
― The Zimzum of Love: A New Way of Understanding Marriage
“A city is successful not when it’s rich but when its people are happy. Creating bikeability and walkability shows respect for human dignity. We’re telling people, ‘You are important—not because you’re rich, but because you are human.’ If people are treated as special, as sacred, even, they behave that way. We need to walk just as birds need to fly. Creating public spaces is one way to lead us to a society that is not only more equal but also much happier.”
― The Little Book of Lykke: Secrets of the World's Happiest People – Proven Strategies to Improve Your Quality of Life and Wellness
― The Little Book of Lykke: Secrets of the World's Happiest People – Proven Strategies to Improve Your Quality of Life and Wellness
“Mystical experience needs some form of dogma in order not to dissipate into moments of spiritual intensity that are merely personal, and dogma needs regular infusions of unknowingness to keep from calcifying into the predictable, pontificating, and anti-intellectual services so common in mainstream American churches. So what does all this mean practically? It means that congregations must be conscious of the persistent and ineradicable loneliness that makes a person seek communion, with other people and with God, in the first place. It means that conservative churches that are infused with the bouncy brand of American optimism one finds in sales pitches are selling shit. It means that liberal churches that go months without mentioning the name of Jesus, much less the dying Christ, have no more spiritual purpose or significance than a local union hall. It means that we -- those of us who call ourselves Christians -- need a revolution in the way we worship. This could mean many different things -- poetry as liturgy, focused and extended silences, learning from other religious traditions and rituals (this seems crucial), incorporating apophatic language. But one thing it means for sure: we must be conscious of language as language, must call into question every word we use until we refine or remake a language that is fit for our particular religious doubts and despairs -- and of course (and most of all!) our joys.”
― My Bright Abyss: Meditation of a Modern Believer
― My Bright Abyss: Meditation of a Modern Believer
“Failing is often the best way to learn, and because of that, early failure is a kind of necessary investment.”
― Switch
― Switch
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