“Women have been driven mad, "gaslighted," for centuries by the refutation of our experience and our instincts in a culture which validates only male experience. The truth of our bodies and our minds has been mystified to us. We therefore have a primary obligation to each other: not to undermine each others' sense of reality for the sake of expediency; not to gaslight each other.
Women have often felt insane when cleaving to the truth of our experience. Our future depends on the sanity of each of us, and we have a profound stake, beyond the personal, in the project of describing our reality as candidly and fully as we can to each other.”
― On Lies, Secrets, and Silence. Selected Prose 1966-1978
Women have often felt insane when cleaving to the truth of our experience. Our future depends on the sanity of each of us, and we have a profound stake, beyond the personal, in the project of describing our reality as candidly and fully as we can to each other.”
― On Lies, Secrets, and Silence. Selected Prose 1966-1978
“Silence can be a plan
rigorously executed
the blueprint to a life
It is a presence
it has a history a form
Do not confuse it
with any kind of absence”
― The Dream of a Common Language
rigorously executed
the blueprint to a life
It is a presence
it has a history a form
Do not confuse it
with any kind of absence”
― The Dream of a Common Language
“and they still control the world, and you are not in my arms.”
― The Dream of a Common Language
― The Dream of a Common Language
“أخي يبكي, يتلوى ألماً, يبكي الخبز. يصغرني. أبكي معه. أراه يمشي إليه. الوحش يمشي إليه. الجنون في عينيه. يداه أخطبوط. لا أحد يقدر أن يمنعه. أستغيث في خيالي. وحش! مجنون! أمنعوه! يلوي اللعين عنقه بعنف. أخي يتلوى. الدم يتدفق من فمه. أهرب خارج بيتنا تاركاً إياه يسكت أمي باللكم والرفس. اختفيت منتظراً نهاية المعركة. لا أحد يمر. أصوات ذلك الليل بعيدة وقريبة مني. السماء مصابيح الله شاهدة علي جريمة أبي. الناس نائمون. مصباح الله يظهر ويختفي. شبح أمي. صوتها خفيض. تبحث عني. تنتحب. الظلام يخفيني. لماذا ليست قوية مثله؟ الرجال يضربون النساء وهن يبكين ويصرخن”
― الخبز الحافي
― الخبز الحافي
“Are you sure, sweetheart, that you want to be well?… Just so’s you’re sure, sweetheart, and ready to be healed, cause wholeness is no trifling matter. A lot of weight when you’re well.”
― The Salt Eaters
― The Salt Eaters
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