Irene Lee

“young people are ambivalent about adulthood. As Arnett argues, they want the security and stability adulthood brings, but they don’t want to settle into a daily grind. They don’t want to limit their spontaneity or put limits on their dreams.”
― David Brooks, The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources Of Love, Character, And Achievement

“Harold had achieved an important thing in his life. He had constructed a viewpoint. Other people see life primarily as a chess match played by reasoning machines. Harold saw life as a neverending interpenetration of souls.”
― David Brooks, The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources Of Love, Character, And Achievement

“The number of her acquaintances multiplied over the years as the number of her true friendships diminished. The Grant Longitudinal Study found that people who were neglected in childhood are much more likely to be friendless in old age... Erica was not solitary. But sometimes she felt she lived in crowded solitude. She was around a shifting mass of semi-friends, but was without a small circle of intimates.
Over the years, in other words, she had become more superficial. She had been publicly active but privately neglectful. She had, over the course of her career, reorganized her own brain in ways that were perhaps necessary to professional achievement, but which were not satisfying now that her drive for worldly achievement had been fulfilled.
She entered retirement beset by a feeling of general numbness. p341-2”
― David Brooks, The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement

“It is possible to have a complex human relationship without words”
― David Brooks, The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement