Kyl Lim

“No whim of fate, no Freudian trauma, no loss of a loved one will be as devastating to the human spirit as some prolonged ambivalent relationship that leaves us forever unable to say goodbye.”
― George E. Vaillant, Adaptation to Life

“We are constantly being shaped by seemingly irrelevant stimuli, subliminal information, and internal forces we don't know a thing about.”
― Robert Sapolsky

“The greatest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude.”
― Martha Whitmore Hickman, Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Grief Recovery

“Pretty straightforwardly, the more categories of adversities a child suffers, the dimmer his or her chances of a happy, functional adulthood.45”
― Robert M. Sapolsky, Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst