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It seemed like my nuclear family would be the only place I was truly safe and understood, and then my parents would die and I’d be in my fifties, living among my mother’s dusty cut-price Manolo flats like it was a museum in her honor.
“I was too irritable from the drive to go straight into the D. H. Lawrence Birthplace Museum and Gift Shop so I ordered a calming cup of tea in the White Peacock Cafe.
'Mug or cup?'
'Cup please,' I said, thinking that I could have said 'I said "cup".' I said cup because I have never enjoyed tea from a mug - and for that matter, only rarely from a cup. Basically I don't like tea but what else is there? Life is really no more than a search for a hot drink one likes.”
― Out of Sheer Rage: Wrestling With D.H. Lawrence
'Mug or cup?'
'Cup please,' I said, thinking that I could have said 'I said "cup".' I said cup because I have never enjoyed tea from a mug - and for that matter, only rarely from a cup. Basically I don't like tea but what else is there? Life is really no more than a search for a hot drink one likes.”
― Out of Sheer Rage: Wrestling With D.H. Lawrence
“I often observed that at times women were invisible to men, who looked right through you as though you weren't there.”
― Personal History (Pulitzer Prize Winner): A Memoir
― Personal History (Pulitzer Prize Winner): A Memoir
“Being forced into helplessness by one other person is terrible," she says, "but being humiliated in front of a crowd...I dont want to say that it's worse, but it is different. It's severely dehumanizing, especially for a child.”
― My Dark Vanessa
― My Dark Vanessa
“When I try to picture for myself what a happy life might look like, the picture hasn't changed very much since I was a child - a house with flowers and trees around it, and a river nearby, and a room full of books, and someone there to love me, that's all. Just to make a home there, and to care for my parents when they grow older. Never to move, never to board a plane again, just to live quietly and then be buried in the earth.”
― Beautiful World, Where Are You
― Beautiful World, Where Are You
“Unfortunately, this incapacity often produced in women--as it did in me--a diffuse way of talking, an inability to be concise, a tendency to ramble, to start at the end and work backwards, to overexplain, to go on for too long, to apologize.”
― Personal History (Pulitzer Prize Winner): A Memoir
― Personal History (Pulitzer Prize Winner): A Memoir
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