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Holman says real play emerges when people can:

decide what matters

invent rules

change direction

explore without evaluation

follow curiosity instead of instructions

So the task is not to build better toys —
it is to build better conditions for play.

Many products, spaces, and programs marketed as “playful” actually shut play down because they:

prescribe how to use them

define the goal

limit what is allowed

reward “doing it right”

We don’t create play by making things.
We create play by creating conditions.

Holman argues that adults often misunderstand play as something that comes from objects (toys, tools, activities, products), when in reality play comes from freedom, agency, and invitation.

Holman distinguishes between mere toys or products that claim to be playful and real play opportunities that arise when people have agency and freedom to shape their own experiences.

She explores how children learn, experiment, fail, and adapt through play, and why adult lives often lose this instinct as they get older, despite its lasting benefits such as creativity and resilience.

Holman uses examples from evolution, child development, and brain science to show that play isn’t a luxury for kids, but a core cognitive and emotional process

what play really means in this book: a state that is freely chosen, intrinsically motivated, and open-ended — not goal-driven or tied to productivity.