Status Updates From Toxic Friendships: Knowing ...

Confidential info being shared w others is a dealbreaker. Ex: Forwarding to others an email in which you confide in them. Publicly humiliating you. Twisting a confession into a lie to use to make you look bad in front of others. Publicly shaming you for something you confused to them. Just walk away. People who care about you would never do these things.

Collateral damage = loss of mutual friends. Difficult when dumping a toxic friend leads to the loss of mutual friends. Their inner allegiance is to the toxic person not you. Accept it & focus on those who believe you & make an effort to be supportive.

A lot of women don’t realize how dangerous their toxic friends are until they tried to sever their ties & often aren’t believed when they go to others for help. Do whatever’s necessary to keep yourself out of harms way. Forget those who don’t believe you. They aren’t your friends because they don’t trust you when you’re being honest & telling the truth