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Scottie None
is 90% done
“People can argue abstractly about the "real-ness" of my life all they want, but this cannot change the fact that I exist, and cannot change the qualities of maleness people observe in me.”
— Dec 08, 2025 03:47AM
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Scottie None
is 60% done
“If we [follow] any prescribed path in order to be ourselves—no matter who prescribes it: the trans community, the medical establishment, or the cisgender assumptions of stereotypical (and therefore socially validated) gender behavior— we are only setting ourselves up to be judged by an arbitrary standard that can be changed at any time by those to whom we've relinquished authority over our own authenticity.”
— Dec 02, 2025 03:26AM
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J. Flows
is 75% done
still all consumed by reading/listening to this book and it has been what 36 hours since I started?? I can’t remember the last time I read a book this quickly
— Nov 25, 2024 06:26PM
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J. Flows
is 71% done
I’m really flying through this book!!!
I feel bad for cursing Samantha because I didn’t know she was dead, still terrible but RIP I guess. Her feelings were valid, her actions were just terrible.
anyways, I love this book and will be getting it to keep on my shelf. there are plenty of places I can see myself coming back to so far regarding community, self acceptance and the pain and joys of puberty #2
— Nov 25, 2024 02:05PM
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I feel bad for cursing Samantha because I didn’t know she was dead, still terrible but RIP I guess. Her feelings were valid, her actions were just terrible.
anyways, I love this book and will be getting it to keep on my shelf. there are plenty of places I can see myself coming back to so far regarding community, self acceptance and the pain and joys of puberty #2
