Status Updates From Complete Without Kids: An I...

“This questioning of me, an adult who had never wavered in knowing what I wanted, was an insult. I don’t see physicians questioning young pregnant women on whether or not they are really ready to become mothers and refusing to treat them if they are deemed to be too immature. In my mind, this refusal to treat is another indication that the choice not to have kids is still perceived as a natural.”

“I selfishly look forward to the day when the boys will graduate from high school and they will once again have time to have fun with me.” That does sound pretty selfish. Someone needs to be a more supportive friend or those friends aren’t going to want to hang out with you once their kids are grown.

“We discussed this and decided that women in relationships don’t want to be around single women because they see what their life would be like if they were single. They may also feel some threat from a single woman because people assume that a single woman is on the make.” Or maybe they’re sensitive & don’t want you to feel awkward.

“The divorce rate among childfree couples is, however, only slightly higher than among couples with children.”

“As I interviewed couples, I wondered if any of them were in marital therapy. Based on the reported quantity and quality of their time together, I doubted it.” But did you actually ask them???? You’re just jumping to conclusions.

“My observation is that childfree adults are more playful and less serious than our peers who have children.” Not scientific! That’s just your opinion. And you’re basing a whole book on your opinion.

The author uses Cameron Diaz as an example of celebrities who are going public about being child-free, but I’m pretty sure she has at least one kid now.