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The book so far has clearly defined some of the key terms of narcissistic tendencies and traits. I’ve benefited from listening to this as it helps to put into perspective what I’ve been through and past significant others have as well. One quote that I’ll butcher as I’m listening not reading is “it would be easier to love if there was a shared definition” I thought this was meaningful to hear.
— Jan 02, 2026 12:25PM
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Nicholas J
is 37% done
I’m digging it. Definitely helpful on identifying past situations I’ve been in and some of my own patterns.
— Jan 07, 2026 07:18AM

