Danielle’s Reviews > The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture > Status Update

“Besides being the bearers of children, they've generally been expected to assuage the psycho-emotional stresses of the men in their lives. Mothering a child may be a mandate from Nature, but mothering a grown man is both unnatural and im-possible. No wonder the father's stress gets outsourced to the mother, at a cost to children and even to the gestating infant”