Kamp Woods’s Reviews > He's Scared, She's Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears That Sabotage Your Relationships > Status Update

this was honestly the most mature and impact book I've read regarding relationships. It's better than the Art of Seduction, The Five Love Launages,

and now im looking up the term Boy Crazy and thinking about if anyone is really socialized to be committed these days. seriously. idk. This one got me TRIGGERRREDDD (But I think it's good to really sit back and think about who I am and why)

I read the Art of Seduction and alot of people stop at "getting who/what they want" but do you actually want to keep it? If so, what are you willing to do to keep it? Why do you want it? What are you going to do when you have it? Do you actually want it for long term or just a one time use?

At the end of the day we are human, and I'm no longer upset for people being people. I just understand who we are and can be

After reading this book, I feel like my awareness has increased tremendously in the best way possible. I honest think that under alot of petty communication issues are deeper commitment issues that people may or may not know they have. It's really easy to hide an issue with commitment because it's so easy to move around in this life. It's normal to quit, to cut off, to move on, and even encouraged to do so quickly.

This is a great book. There are alot of books about how to "treat" someone and speak their love language but this is unique in the way of speaking how to actually COMMIT to someone/something. I like how it expands beyond romantic relationship and provides prompts that really inspire the reader to look at how they operate in life in general. Are you a job hopper? Have issues making choices?

I REALLY liked the chapter that discussed growing up.. and how some people really don't want to do that... commit to the process and responsibilities of being an adult.. and how some people are doing their best to avoid that step. (however, arrested development has a funny way of showing itself)

lol....maybe I'm not perfect and I actually have some stuff to work on.... I like how this book doesn't target insecurities like how someone looks or how they present in the world, but rather focuses on individuals internal relationship with themselves and reaction to commitments. (romantic and just in general).

I do like that the book exposes common fears that impact everyone. Men and women. Young and Old.

This one is hard to read because it feels like a mirror. It's causing me to ask myself some deep questions about what it is I truly want in life and when. The book is also putting in perspective different POVs in relationships/life that I didn't really understand before. Glad I selected this one.

wow. wow is really all I have to say.