Kait’s Reviews > Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men > Status Update

Chronic mistreatment gets people to doubt themselves. Children of abusive parents know that something is wrong, but they suspect the badness is inside of them. The first goal of getting over abuse is to regain trust in yourself, rely on your own perceptions, and listen to your own internal voices. You can find your way back to center.

An abuser almost never does anything that he himself considers morally unacceptable, he invariably always has a reason he considers good enough. An abusers core problem is he has a distorted sense of right and wrong.