Stephen Tuck’s Reviews > Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love > Status Update
Stephen Tuck
is on page 195 of 294
A lot I can relate to - the attempts to resolve differences especially. And I wonder how many of my fights over social things with the ex had their origin here. Still, I’m a bit sick of avoidants and men always being the villains.
— 4 hours, 1 min ago
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Stephen Tuck
is on page 177 of 294
The section on improving anxious/avoidant dynamics will need rereading. It will take two to tango though.
— 17 hours, 25 min ago
Stephen Tuck
is on page 153 of 294
I had to skip most of the chapter on people with secure attachment styles. Bunch of smug self-regarding bastards.
— Aug 28, 2026 09:10AM
Stephen Tuck
is on page 130 of 294
I read the section on avoidant attachment, in which avoidants are blamed for everything. I had the uncomfortable feeling of being back in marriage counseling where my wife and her psychologist teamed up to tell me it was all my fault. I don’t know what the authors are trying to achieve but my dominant emotion this moment is volcanoes c bitterness.
— Aug 27, 2026 09:22AM
Stephen Tuck
is on page 99 of 294
Anxious avoidant - distinct echoes of Alison T.
— Aug 26, 2026 10:13AM
Stephen Tuck
is on page 77 of 294
Good insights. The personal vignettes are very relatable.
— Aug 25, 2026 08:56AM
Stephen Tuck
is on page 30 of 294
The discussion of anxious attachment screams out “Alison” to me.
— Aug 23, 2026 08:10AM