K’s Reviews > Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience > Status Update

I just need to make this comment so I don’t forget. When she talks about humiliation being the cause of violence it flirts dangerously close to victim blaming. No one deserves to be on the receiving end of violence. She describes humiliation as being similar to shame except you think you don’t deserve it. And that last part is the key. It is almost always entitled people who resort to violence after humiliation.