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Andrew G. Marshall

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Andrew has been a marital therapist for almost thirty years. He trained with RELATE the UK's leading couple counselling charity. He now has a private practice in London and Sussex (England), gives workshops on relationship and inspirational talks. His books have been translated into twenty languages (including French, German, Spanish, Japanese, Chinese and Italian). He also writes for UK newspapers Daily Mail and Mail on Sunday.

Andrew is also the host of the podcast "The Meaningful Life with Andrew G Marshall" where each week I interview therapists, academics and people with a story to tell about making better relationships, deeper connections understanding yourself and what makes life meaningful.

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The Woman in Black by Susan         Hill
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I bought this at the airport to occupy me on a short flight. I was intrigued by the successful theatre play and wanted to know what it was all about.

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Jung and the Alchemical Imagination by Jeffrey Raff
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The Princess Bride by William Goldman
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Interesting combination of myth and commentary on how stories are created (and what they mean to us). I rather lost interest towards the end where the story broke in two and we had a sequel and the end of the original story.

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The Slave Journals and Other Tales of the Old Guard by Thom Magister
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Having read the essay by Magister in the Leatherfolk collection edited by Mark Thompson, I was interested to find out more about the author and the early days of the BDSM scene that emerged out of soldiers returning from the second world war.

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I read this book in the nineties and returned to it because I was interviewing one of the authors for my podcast 'The Meaningful Life with Andrew G Marshall': Robert Hopke who writes on SM and initiative from an archetypal perspective. (On the podcas ...more
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The Rose Field by Philip Pullman
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The final part of the trilogy (of new titles) and I was expecting. Sadly, it was more of a whimper. There were interesting themes developed from before but nothing fitted together into a satisfying whole.

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Box Hill by Adam Mars-Jones
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When I saw the trailer for the Pillion, a gay BDSM film, I couldn't wait. Sadly, as the release date in Germany was month's later than the UK, I had no choice. However, the book, Box Hill, - on which the film is based - was available for download. I ...more
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The Silver Book by Olivia Laing
The Silver Book
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I came for the love story but stayed for how they created in the magic backstage in Italian movies by Fellini and Passolini. Unfortunately, Laing doesn't take us deep enough into either of her main character's to really care about their welfare or th ...more
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Earth by John Boyne
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I was immediately pulled into this story but I found the twist in the end a little unbelievable. Short but engaging. To be honest, I felt the earth theme was a little crow bared into the story

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“When a relationship hits a crisis, the natural response is to try to fix it as quickly as possible. But in the panic, it is very easy to get confused about the true nature of the problems and head off in the wrong direction. So the first step is to truly understand.”
Andrew G. Marshall, I Love You, but I'm Not IN Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship

“if you’re going to rebuild your marriage, it has to be based on better communication, openness and honesty, and keeping secrets will doom the project before it has even started.”
Andrew G. Marshall, Why Did I Cheat?: Help your partner (and yourself) recover from your affair

“22 How would you describe your sexual relationship? 23 What would you like to happen right now? 24 How would you like your life to be in the future? Make the answer as detailed as possible. Where would you be living? What would you be doing? What would the house look like? Who else is there? 25 How might you be able to make this happen? Interpreting your answers: 1 This question is checking whether there is a general background of unhappiness.”
Andrew G. Marshall, I Love You but I'm Not in Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship

“Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl.

Men actually think this girl exists. Maybe they’re fooled because so many women are willing to pretend to be this girl. For a long time Cool Girl offended me. I used to see men – friends, coworkers, strangers – giddy over these awful pretender women, and I’d want to sit these men down and calmly say: You are not dating a woman, you are dating a woman who has watched too many movies written by socially awkward men who’d like to believe that this kind of woman exists and might kiss them. I’d want to grab the poor guy by his lapels or messenger bag and say: The bitch doesn’t really love chili dogs that much – no one loves chili dogs that much! And the Cool Girls are even more pathetic: They’re not even pretending to be the woman they want to be, they’re pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be. Oh, and if you’re not a Cool Girl, I beg you not to believe that your man doesn’t want the Cool Girl. It may be a slightly different version – maybe he’s a vegetarian, so Cool Girl loves seitan and is great with dogs; or maybe he’s a hipster artist, so Cool Girl is a tattooed, bespectacled nerd who loves comics. There are variations to the window dressing, but believe me, he wants Cool Girl, who is basically the girl who likes every fucking thing he likes and doesn’t ever complain. (How do you know you’re not Cool Girl? Because he says things like: “I like strong women.” If he says that to you, he will at some point fuck someone else. Because “I like strong women” is code for “I hate strong women.”)”
Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

“We all spend so much time worrying about the future that the present moment slips right out of our hands. And so all we have left is retrospection and anticipation, retrospection and anticipation. In which case what's left to recall but past anticipation? What's left to anticipate but future retrospection?”
David Leavitt, The Two Hotel Francforts

“The angry person is acutely sensitive to all they are owed by the world, and blind to all they have received”
Jules Evans, Philosophy for Life: And Other Dangerous Situations
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Majenta Hello, Andrew! Good to hear from you again, Friend! Happy Monday, hope you're having a good week. Blessings!

Best wishes from Majenta


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