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Black Lotus Virtual Book Club Meeting is TONIGHT, Oct 11 at 7P ET!

During this virtual event, you will have the opportunity to not only engage with the author but also delve deeper into some of the themes that are introduced in her book.

We will begin promptly at 7:00 PM (EST), so be sure to dial in or join the online meeting a few minutes early in order to get a front row seat for this dynamic 90-minute conversation, moderated by Marcie L. Thomas of Brown Girl Co Read more of this blog post »
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“True revolutionary change begins by first challenging yourself -- not the world. Until you own your story and the complexities of your experience, no matter how much you may strain against it, you will still be enslaved -- if not by your oppressor, by your past.”
Sil Lai Abrams, Black Lotus: A Woman's Search for Racial Identity

“In order to break free from the chains that bind, one must take whatever action they can to disconnect internally from the larger systems of oppression, of which the family unit is merely a microcosm.”
Sil Lai Abrams, Black Lotus: A Woman's Search for Racial Identity

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“True revolutionary change begins by first challenging yourself -- not the world. Until you own your story and the complexities of your experience, no matter how much you may strain against it, you will still be enslaved -- if not by your oppressor, by your past.”
Sil Lai Abrams, Black Lotus: A Woman's Search for Racial Identity

“In order to escape accountability for his crimes, the perpetrator does everything in his power to promote forgetting. If secrecy fails, the perpetrator attacks the credibility of his victim. If he cannot silence her absolutely, he tries to make sure no one listens.”
Judith Lewis Herman, Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror

“... in practice the standard for what constitutes rape is set not at the level of women's experience of violation but just above the level of coercion acceptable to men.”
Judith Lewis Herman

“Stanford was offering $150,000 total, which would cover therapy for my sister and me for a handful of years. Victims receive heat when given any sum. Few acknowledge that healing is costly. That we should be allocating more funds for victims, for therapy, extra security, potential moving costs, getting back on their feel, buying something as simple as court clothes. As Michele pointed out, Preventing assault is so much cheaper than trying to address it after the fact.”
Chanel Miller, Know My Name

“Did you know PTSD is the only mental illness you can give someone? A person gave it to me. A man actually drove me crazy. He transmitted this condition. Like the man who gave my gay cousin HIV, or like my grandfather, who gave my grandmother the clap. You can “get” schizophrenia or bipolar in the genetic sense. You might inherit genes that predispose you toward hearing voices or intense fluctuation of mood. In that sense, these conditions are “given” to you. But they aren’t given to you in the same way watching your father cut off your mother’s head on Christmas gives you PTSD.”
Myriam Gurba, Mean

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