Behnam

“Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you.”
― C.G. Jung

“Please remember that pleasing another is not the same as caring for another.”
― Debbie Ford, The Right Questions

“TEN RULES FOR WINNING THE GAME OF CONFIDENCE The actions of confidence come first; the feelings of confidence come later. Genuine confidence is not the absence of fear; it is a transformed relationship with fear. Negative thoughts are normal. Don’t fight them; defuse them. Self-acceptance trumps self-esteem. True success is living by your values. Hold your values lightly, but pursue them vigorously. Don’t obsess about the outcome; get passionate about the process. Don’t fight your fear: allow it, befriend it, and channel it. Failure hurts—but if we’re willing to learn, it’s a wonderful teacher. The key to peak performance is total engagement in the task.”
― Russ Harris, The Confidence Gap: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt

“هیچ کس در این دنیا -چون در بطن موقعیت خاص انسانی دیگر قرار ندارد- نمی تواند احساس صحیح و درستی در مورد بدی یا خوبی مسئله ای داشته باشد ، حالا خواه این مسئله به خوشبختی یا بدبختی ، به عش یا به "افت هنری" ارتباط داشته باشد. واقعیت امر این است که هر مردی همواره به نوعی خارج از وضعیت و شرایط انسانی دیگر قرار دارد”
― هاینریش بل