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“When you meet someone, you know all about him. On subsequent meetings, you blind yourself to your own wisdom”
― Irvin D. Yalom, Love's Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy

“I stared at her. “Is that another compliment? Because we’ve just been through that.” She walked to her desk. “You mispronounced thank you.”
― N.R. Walker, The Weight of It All

“Gavin, we're going to grow old together, and whether you pick up a gardening hobby, or learn to make you won sushi, or even decide to learn an instrument, I will be right there with you, growing with you. We'll share our whole lives, our quirks and bad habits. It's not just learning your past and who you are today; its getting to see who you'll become tomorrow. I want to be there for that.”
― A.J. Rose, Power Exchange

“I’d put myself into this situation—surrounded by people, looking like hell, and so obviously unhappy that I was practically waving a pity me banner, but still not willing to talk to anyone.”
― Santino Hassell, Sutphin Boulevard