Travious Mitchell’s Reviews > Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It > Status Update
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We live in a culture that doesn’t value truth and honesty. Rather, we are loyal to secrecy, privacy, and selective sharing, including with those we love, not realizing we are contributing to a culture of suspicion and contributing to the epidemic of anxiety and lack of trust.
— Nov 16, 2024 10:41AM
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Travious Mitchell
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My therapist recommended this book to me during our first session in 2021. I didn’t know why because I didn’t consider myself an anxious lover. I’ve read this book multiple times, but this time I realized what he meant by, “You’ll need this when your heart’s really invested”
— Nov 16, 2024 07:29AM
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This section I’m in correlates directly to my current situation and most recent update from today and I’ve never been so disappointed in my life
— Nov 14, 2024 08:55PM
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I’m up this late… or early journaling things from this book and relating them to my life.
— Nov 14, 2024 01:50AM
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Nov 16, 2024 10:42AM
I appreciate the distinction between boundaries and barriers. Boundaries are guidelines shared out of love for others to know how to love us well. Boundaries are rooted in love through communication. Barriers are meant to keep people out. They come from “since you did this to me, I’m going to do this to you”. Barriers aren’t communicated, just enacted and enforced, not out of love but punishment. Boundaries ease anxiety, but barriers increase it. This is why relationships fail to work.
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