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The concept of father memoirs is a fascinating one. Confronting fathers directly and publicly is not, and never has been, easy: the patriarch should judge and not be judged. To write about the father is to sit in judgement upon him, and for most cultures this was a taboo too strong to be overcome. The Greeks, despite their searingly perceptive stories about father-child interactions, did not attempt to do so—nor did the Romans, the Italians of the Renaissance, the Elizabethans, or even the Romantics. Paradoxically—but not surprisingly, given the rigid paternalism of the age and the attendant psychological pressures—personal father writing, like radical feminism, is a product of the Victorian era. In 1907, six years after the death of Queen Victoria, Edmund Gosse published Father and Son. Once the taboo was broken, writers were quick to take advantage of the new possibilities. The 20th century saw a steady increase in the number of father memoirs, and, now that the boomers are aging and seeking to immortalize themselves, such memoirs are becoming as ubiquitous as tattoos. And, as with tattoos, some are visceral works of art. The books below give an idea of how poignant, rich and rewarding father memoirs can be.
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message 1: by jo (last edited Sep 12, 2012 07:27PM) (new)

jo i'm tempted to put lidia yuknavitch's Chronology of Water here, because so much of it is about her father and her father has such a central role. it is about a lot of other things, though.


message 2: by Andre (new)

Andre I'll check it out.


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