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Help for High-Conflict Couples: Using Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Science of Attachment to Build Lasting Connection

by Jennine Estes Powell

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Gestalt Therapy Verbatim by Frederick Salomon Perls

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It is often said that poets and artists have to create their audiences. Perhaps founders of therapeutic schools have to create both patients and disciples.

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“Let us read, and let us dance; these two amusements will never do any harm to the world.”
― Voltaire

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“It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is a mere living death.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt

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“We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.”
― Anaïs Nin

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“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”
― Anais Nin

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