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It is often said that poets and artists have to create their audiences. Perhaps founders of therapeutic schools have to create both patients and disciples.
“Love After Love
The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.”
― Collected Poems, 1948-1984
The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.”
― Collected Poems, 1948-1984
“We tell ourselves stories in order to live.”
― The White Album
― The White Album
“How wrong is it for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself?”
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“Without music, life would be a mistake.”
― Twilight of the Idols
― Twilight of the Idols
50 books to read before you die
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— last activity Apr 23, 2026 06:51AM
These are the named books: 1 The Lord of the Rings Trilogy by J. R. R. Tolkien 2 1984 by George Orwell 3 Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen 4 The Gra ...more
Next Big Idea Club
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Welcome to the Goodreads group for the Next Big Idea Club, a next-generation book club curated by world-class authors Malcolm Gladwell, Susan Cain, Ad ...more
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A book club for therapists/counselors.
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